Sidney Poitier, the groundbreaking actor who became the first Black man to win an Oscar, captivated audiences for over 60 years. His talent and determination paved the way for countless Black actors, and his legacy continues to inspire. When Poitier passed away on January 6 at the age of 94, the world mourned the loss of an extraordinary individual.
Former President Barack Obama paid tribute to Poitier, describing him as an amazing talent who embodied dignity and grace. Another prominent actor, Denzel Washington, expressed his admiration for Poitier, calling him a kind-hearted individual who shattered barriers and opened doors for future generations.
After landing his breakthrough role in the film “Blackboard Jungle” in 1955, Sidney Poitier went on to star in 55 movies and TV shows. He gained recognition for his ability to challenge racial stereotypes in Hollywood and was instrumental in pushing for increased representation and inclusion.
As the saying goes, “Behind every successful man is a woman.” In Poitier’s case, that woman was Canadian actress Joanna Shimkus, whom he married in 1976. However, prior to their relationship, Poitier had already been married, had four children, and even had an affair.
Poitier’s journey began on Cat Island in the Bahamas, where he spent his early years. Despite being born unexpectedly in Miami, three months premature, Poitier gained U.S. citizenship due to the circumstances. At the age of 15, he relocated to Nassau, the capital of the Bahamas, before eventually making his way to America.
Determined to pursue his passion for acting, Poitier overcame numerous obstacles. He faced rejection early on due to his accent but refused to give up. Through relentless dedication, including using a radio to mimic different accents and seeking guidance from others, such as an elderly Jewish waiter, Poitier honed his acting skills.
His persistence paid off when he secured a spot in the American Negro Theatre in Harlem, New York. From there, his career took off, earning him numerous accolades and awards.
One of Poitier’s most significant roles came in the film “The Lost Man,” where he crossed paths with Joanna Shimkus, who would become his future wife. They met in 1969, four years after his divorce from his first wife, Juanita Hardy, and one year after ending a nine-year affair with actress Diahann Carroll.
Poitier’s marriage to Juanita lasted for 15 years, from 1950 to 1965. However, his union with Joanna Shimkus proved to be enduring, as they shared a strong bond and welcomed two daughters into their lives.
Reflecting on their lasting relationship, Joanna remarked, “We were meant to be together.” She supported Poitier’s career while taking a break from acting herself to raise their daughters, Anika and Sidney, both of whom followed in their parents’ footsteps.
Sidney Poitier emphasized the importance of expressing love daily in his relationship with Joanna. He once shared, “My wife taught me something important over the years: saying ‘I love you’ every day.” Their bond was further strengthened by Joanna’s role as a caring spouse and an exceptional cook.
Despite his countless achievements, including winning an honorary Academy Award and receiving prestigious medals, Poitier always prioritized his family above all else. He cherished moments spent with both his wife and ex-wife, as well as his six daughters, eight grandchildren, and three great-grandchildren.
Throughout history, interracial relationships have faced significant challenges. However, for Joanna Shimkus and Sidney Poitier, their love transcended racial barriers. In a documentary titled “Sidney Poitier: One Bright Light,” Joanna expressed how her upbringing in Canada shielded her from the prejudice prevalent in America. She saw Poitier not as a Black man, but as a remarkable human being.
As we bid farewell to Sidney Poitier, his talent, grace, and resilience will forever be etched in the hearts of people around the world. He leaves behind a timeless legacy and serves as an inspiration for future generations.
