I had my first baby, and my husband insisted my MIL come help. I agreed, but she gave my baby a crocheted duck with plastic eyes I knew could choke her. I asked her to take it away. She gave me a look, but didn’t argue. However, my worst fear came true when the next day, I found the duck back in my daughterโs crib.
I froze. It was sitting right next to her little head, those hard plastic eyes staring up like nothing was wrong. My daughter was sound asleep, peaceful as ever, but my heart dropped. I snatched the toy away, checking her mouth and hands. She was fine, thank God.
When I walked into the kitchen holding the duck, my mother-in-law was humming as she stirred a pot of soup. I held the duck out to her without a word.
โOh,โ she said, eyes wide and innocent. โI mustโve forgotten it in the crib.โ
โNo,โ I said firmly. โI took it out yesterday. I put it on the top shelf of the closet in the guest room.โ
She blinked. โWell, maybe it fell. You know how things sometimes fall.โ
That didnโt even make sense. The shelf was too high and too far from the crib. I didnโt argue, though. I was tired, nursing around the clock, and trying to keep peace in a house that suddenly felt tight with tension.
My husband, Lucas, was always the peacemaker. โBabe, sheโs just trying to help,โ he said when I told him.
โLeaving a choking hazard in our babyโs crib is not helping,โ I replied, keeping my voice low.
โIโll talk to her,โ he promised. But nothing changed.
Over the next week, I found the duck two more times in the crib.
Each time, I got more scared. My instincts were screaming. Something was off. I wasnโt sleeping much, and the stress was eating at me. My baby girl, Lily, deserved better. Safer.
So the third time I found it, I threw the duck in the trash bin outside. Not the kitchen one. The one by the street, the one that got picked up every Thursday.
But the next morning, it was back. Same duck. Same plastic eyes.
I checked the trashโempty.
Thatโs when I realized someone had gone out and pulled it from the bin.
This wasnโt forgetfulness anymore. It was intentional.
I sat Lucas down that night after Lily had fallen asleep on my chest. โLucas, I need you to listen and not brush this off. Your mom is putting Lily in danger. I donโt know why, but itโs not a mistake.โ
He looked tired, confused. โItโs just a toy. She made it with love.โ
โThen why does she keep sneaking it back in after I take it out? Why didnโt she just say she disagreed and keep it out in the open?โ
He ran a hand through his hair. โOkay. Iโll talk to her. Really talk.โ
But I could tell he didnโt get it. Not fully.
The next morning, I woke up to Lily crying. A sharp, panicked cry that was different from her usual hunger cry.
I ran inโand found her on her belly, her little face pressed into the mattress. The duck was under her chest.
I scooped her up, my heart pounding, and checked her over. She was okay, thank God again. But my hands were shaking.
I walked straight to the guest room. My MIL was folding clothes like nothing had happened.
โYou need to leave,โ I said.
She looked up. โExcuse me?โ
โYou put that toy back in the crib again. She couldโve suffocated. I donโt know what youโre doing, but Iโm done.โ
She stood up slowly, eyes narrowing. โYou donโt get to talk to me like that. Iโm family. Iโve raised three children.โ
โThis is my child. And youโre not safe to be around her.โ
We argued. She called me paranoid. Said I was overreacting, hormonal. But I didnโt care anymore. Lucas came in midway, and after seeing the state I was in, he agreed it was best if she leftโfor now.
She left that afternoon in a storm of words. But I didnโt feel better. I felt watched.
That night, I couldnโt sleep. Something still felt wrong.
A week passed. No duck. No calls from my MIL. Things felt quieter, but not peaceful.
Then I got a message on Facebook.
A woman I didnโt know.
Hi. You donโt know me, but I need to tell you something about your mother-in-law. Please donโt ignore this.
I stared at the screen for a long time. My heart raced. I clicked.
My name is Sandra. I used to be married to your MILโs eldest son. He passed away five years ago. I know this might sound crazy, but I have reason to believe she did something to hurt our son when he was a baby.
I didnโt know what to think. Was this real? Was this just some bitter ex?
But she included pictures. One of a nearly identical crocheted duck, this one blue instead of yellow. One of her baby in the hospital after โswallowing a button eye.โ One of a police report. No charges. Just a note: โNo evidence of criminal intent.โ
Sandra said she had tried to warn people before. But no one believed her. Everyone said she was just grieving.
โI saw your babyโs picture in your profile,โ she wrote. โAnd I saw that duck. I had to reach out.โ
I called Lucas. Showed him everything.
He sat there silent for a long time. โI never knew about this.โ
โShe couldโve killed Lily.โ
โShe wouldnโtโฆโ
โShe couldโve.โ
We didnโt talk to his mom again. Not for a while.
A month passed. Lily started sleeping longer. I started feeling more like myself again. The shadows under my eyes lightened, and I could breathe.
Then, something unexpected happened.
We got a letter from a lawyer.
My MIL was suing for grandparentsโ visitation rights.
I almost laughed. But it wasnโt funny.
Lucas was furious. โAfter everything?โ
She claimed we were alienating her from her grandchild. That we were making baseless accusations. That she had done nothing wrong.
I had saved everything. The pictures. The messages. Even photos of the duck each time I found it.
The lawyer advised us to stay calm. “You have a case,” he said. “But family court can get messy. Sheโll try to make you look unstable.”
And she did. In court, she cried. Said I was depressed, paranoid. Said Iโd accused her without reason. That Iโd imagined it.
But Sandra came. In person.
She testified. Showed her old police report. Her own photos. She was composed, honest, and clear.
The judge ruled in our favor.
No visitation.
I walked out of that courtroom holding Lily tighter than ever. I thanked Sandra with tears in my eyes. She squeezed my hand.
โKeep her safe,โ she said. โSome people donโt change.โ
A year passed. No contact.
And then, one summer morning, I got a call.
Lucasโs mom had passed away. Heart attack. Alone in her apartment.
I didnโt know how to feel. Relief? Guilt? Nothing made sense.
But a week later, something else came.
A package.
No return address.
Inside was a note. In shaky handwriting.
โIโm sorry. I didnโt know how to stop. I donโt know why I did what I did. I think something was wrong in my head. Please donโt let Lily hate me. I never wanted to hurt her. I just… I got confused. I missed my son. I thought if I could do it right this time, Iโd fix everything. But I didnโt. I made it worse.โ
At the bottom of the box was the duck. But the eyes were gone. Removed.
I held it in my hands for a long time.
Somehow, I believed she meant it. But it didnโt erase what sheโd done.
Still, there was something about that final actโsending the duck without its eyesโthat felt like a sign of peace. A broken womanโs final attempt to make things right.
I burned it in the backyard that night. Watched the yarn catch fire, the smoke curling into the dark sky.
Lucas stood beside me, quiet.
โAre you okay?โ he asked.
I nodded. โI think I am.โ
Lily is three now. Bright, curious, kind. She loves ducks, oddly enough, but only the plush kind. Soft. Safe.
Sometimes I wonder how things might have gone differently. If I hadnโt trusted my gut. If Iโd stayed quiet.
But I didnโt. And that made all the difference.
If thereโs one thing Iโve learned, itโs this:
Listen to your instincts. Especially when it comes to your kids. Youโre not being dramatic. Youโre being a parent. And sometimes, protecting your peace means standing up, even when everyone else tells you to sit down.
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