Have you ever found yourself constantly being the one stuck with the bill? I certainly have. Every time my boyfriend and I go out to eat, he conveniently “forgets” his credit card, leaving me to foot the bill. Frustrated by this recurring issue, I turned to Reddit to seek advice and was surprised by the eye-opening responses I received.

Let me set the scene for you. My boyfriend’s children love eating out, so we make it a weekly affair. Unfortunately, each time we go, he conveniently forgets his card, leaving me to cover the costs. At first, it didn’t bother me much. But recently, it’s been taking a toll on my finances.

I vividly recall a particular instance when I had just been paid from my second part-time job. We were heading out for dinner with his children, and I knew I couldn’t afford to foot the bill for everyone. So, I sent him a friendly text reminder to bring his wallet. He simply laughed it off, assuring me that he wouldn’t forget this time.

Upon arriving at the restaurant, his children excitedly ordered expensive dishes from the menu. As I glanced at the prices, it dawned on me that my boyfriend had once again neglected to bring his wallet. Devastated, I mustered the courage to ask him about it. His shocked expression spoke volumes as he frantically searched his pockets, confessing that he had left it in another pair of jeans he had planned to wear.

That was the final straw for me. It was unimaginable that he had “forgotten” his wallet yet again. In my frustration, I gathered my belongings, prepared to leave the restaurant without even touching my meal. My boyfriend was taken aback, demanding to know why I was leaving. I explained that I couldn’t continue to shoulder the financial burden of paying for him and his children every single time we went out. With that, I walked out of the restaurant.

Later, my boyfriend called me, accusing me of being selfish for leaving him and his children in such a predicament. He argued that I hadn’t shown any sympathy for their hunger when he had to cancel their food order. But here’s the thing – I firmly believe it’s not fair for me to constantly foot the bill. It’s not my responsibility to pay for him and his children every time we go on a date.

I’ve reached a point where my frustration is reaching its peak. I need to have an honest conversation with my boyfriend about finances and responsibility. In any relationship, it’s crucial for both partners to share the financial burden. Without this balance, resentment can easily build up and cause further strain.

By sharing my story, I hope to inspire others in similar situations to find the courage to address their concerns. It’s essential to clearly communicate your needs and expectations, especially when it comes to finances, in any relationship.