It’s fascinating how the simplest interactions can mean different things around the globe. Have you ever thought about the common response Americans use to a ‘thank you’ and how it’s seen elsewhere?

This wouldn’t fly in Britain

In the diverse world we live in, what one culture sees as courteous can be perceived quite differently by others. Consider how various responses to a simple ‘thank you’ might be taken as impolite outside of America.

For example, in some places, making a bit of noise while slurping noodles is not only accepted but encouraged. It shows that you’re enjoying your meal! Yet, the same behavior could be frowned upon in American restaurants.

Across cultures, you’ll find differences in greetings too. A firm handshake might be preferred in the United States and other Western countries, while a kiss on the cheek is common in many European nations. In Asia, a respectful bow often takes the place of a handshake.

Yet, there’s one cultural quirk that’s been lighting up discussions online: how Americans respond to ‘thank you’. This has caught the attention of many folks abroad who find it puzzling or even rude.

What’s the usual response when someone expresses gratitude? You might consider saying ‘You’re welcome’, ‘Don’t mention it’, or ‘No problem’. But sometimes in the States, it could be an unenthusiastic ‘mm-hm’ or a quick ‘okay’.

To some, these responses seem casual—almost as if the American speaker is brushing off the thanks. This can be confusing to people from other countries who expect a fuller acknowledgment.

There was even a lively debate on TikTok, where an Australian lady named Tilly humorously pointed out that whenever she thanks an American, she just gets a ‘mm-hm’ in return.

Interestingly, Kacie, an American living in Italy, shared that her quick ‘mm-hm’ response often made Italians think she was upset. She noted that in New York City, where she’s from, such a response was perfectly normal.

In the comments, many admitted they replied the same way, not realizing how it came across. A number of British folks chimed in too, noting that they had teased their American friends about it.

Amidst all these playful exchanges, Dr. Hannah Yang, a psychologist, suggests that accepting a ‘thank you’ with sincerity helps foster strong relationships. According to her, there are several alternatives to the typical American responses that can bridge this cultural gap.

Her top suggestion? A good old ‘You’re welcome’. It’s simple and universally appreciated, helping to build a friendly connection.

And if you want to keep the warmth going, expressions like ‘I’m glad you like it’ or ‘Glad I could help’ are ideal when someone shows appreciation for a task or favor.

Yet it’s not all about flowery responses. A simple ‘anytime’ works too, though it’s best when said genuinely. Some phrases offer reassurance, like ‘I’m here for you anytime you need’. Just be sure to deliver them with the right amount of sincerity to fit the situation.

So, next time someone thanks you, you might want to think twice about the usual ‘mm-hm’. Instead, maybe take Dr. Yang’s advice to ‘Thank you for your kind words’ or even take a friendly nod from the list she suggests—it could make all the difference!