Dogs are known to be man’s best friend, but how far does that friendship go? Recently, a video went viral showing a father choosing to carry his dog while his young child walked beside him. The video, captured by Luz Elena from her car and shared on TikTok, sparked a conversation about priorities. With over 4 million views and 5,000 comments, people debated where TikTok stood on the matter.
Some viewers supported the father’s decision, pointing out that the child seemed fine and had good shoes for walking. It’s clear that the father loves his son and his dog equally and that pets hold a special place in people’s hearts. Choosing a pet over a child may not be as straightforward as it seems.
In fact, many people express their love for their pets more openly than for their children. While it may not be exactly about choosing dogs over sons, the bond with a pet can be just as strong. In a recent survey, someone responded that they would have chosen a collection of dogs if given the choice. The person went on to praise the unconditional and uncomplicated love provided by pets, raising questions about the psychology of pet-love versus child-love.
Dr. Julian Lagoy, a psychiatrist, explains that loving pets more than children is not uncommon. Pets often bring less stress and drama into our lives compared to raising human children, who have more complex needs. Dogs and cats, being our long-standing companions, tend to evoke a stronger connection than other pets like fish. It’s natural for some people to feel a deeper bond with their furry friends.
However, there might be underlying psychological issues at play if someone consistently prioritizes their pet over their child. Seeking the guidance of a mental health professional can help address these concerns. Therapy provides a safe space to explore one’s feelings without judgment and offers tools to strengthen relationships.
Dr. Lagoy reassures parents that it’s okay to sometimes feel more affection for a pet, especially when a child is being difficult. However, if there is a persistent feeling of loving the dog more, it’s worth investigating what might be missing in the parent-child relationship. Understanding the reasons behind these feelings can help parents enhance their bond with their child.
Ultimately, there is no right or wrong when it comes to the quantification of love. It’s perfectly fine to love your dog and see it as your best friend. Just remember to nurture your relationship with your child and seek professional help if needed.
