Man Whose Wife Died at Childbirth Ponders Giving up Baby until He Sees Her Texts with a Friend — Story of the Day

After childbirth, David experienced an unimaginable loss; his beloved wife, Joan, passed away, leaving him unable to face their newborn daughter or sort through Joan’s belongings. However, after working with a therapist, David found the strength to revisit his wife’s possessions. As he charged her phone, he uncovered a series of text messages that transformed his perspective.

“Despite our best efforts, we couldn’t save your wife. She’s gone, sir.”

These heart-wrenching words haunted David daily since the birth of his beautiful daughter. The pain of losing Joan was so profound that he couldn’t even bring himself to look at his baby. Fortunately, his mother stepped in to care for the infant.

Immersed in grief, David only managed the bare necessities. But his mother insisted he visit a therapist. Reluctantly, he agreed and started the healing process.

Over time, the sessions illuminated a glimmer of hope. Although the doctor’s words echoed in his mind, their impact lessened.

David’s mother was pleased with his progress, though he still hadn’t held his daughter. He wrestled with the thought of whether he should ever hold her or if he should let someone else raise her, someone who could be a better parent.

But he told himself that today wasn’t about making that decision. Instead, he decided to focus on something else—sorting through Joan’s belongings and donating some to charity.

He hadn’t touched her hospital bag since arriving home with their daughter. The pain had been too much. Now, however, after three long months, David was ready. As he unzipped the bag, he discovered her phone, its battery long dead since her labor.

He plugged the phone in to charge and busied himself with her clothes. An hour later, he picked up the phone again and noticed a flood of missed calls and a string of messages.

Initially, the texts were congratulatory—friends who knew Joan was in labor. One friend, Melissa, continued to text even after Joan’s passing was announced within their circle.

“I’m not the only one who misses her,” David mused, touched by the love Joan’s friends had for her. But a particular message gave him pause.

It’s a pity you sacrificed your life… Melissa had written.

The message puzzled him. Joan had succumbed to an unforeseen complication. Yet Melissa’s words suggested she knew something more. Driven by curiosity, David scrolled to the top of their conversation.

Initially, the texts were typical—Joan sharing her excitement and dreams for their baby. But further along, the mood shifted.

The doctors said something scary, Joan texted.

What? What’s going on? Are you okay? Melissa asked, her concern evident.

They said I have high blood pressure and might develop pre-eclampsia. The doctor suggested terminating the pregnancy.

No! Honey, that’s terrible. But what if you die? What did David say? Melissa pressed.

He wasn’t with me. I haven’t told him. David wants a child so badly. We’ve tried for ten years, Melissa. I can’t abort this baby. It’s his dream to be a father, Joan replied.

Joan, you might die! He wouldn’t want that. He loves you!

I know, Mel. But it’s our baby. I love him or her. I’m going to risk it, Joan firmly answered.

Shock washed over David. Joan had risked everything, defying doctors’ advice, to fulfill his dream of fatherhood. He felt ashamed for not holding their daughter since her birth.

Melissa’s subsequent texts merely reassured Joan whenever she felt anxious, to which Joan often replied that she felt fine despite the doctors warning she might not show symptoms. David tried to recall if pre-eclampsia had ever been mentioned, but his mind had shut down upon hearing of Joan’s death.

“What am I going to do now?” he wondered aloud, setting the phone aside. “Will I let my mother raise the child Joan sacrificed everything for?”

In that moment, David didn’t succumb to self-pity. His tears were different—they were tears of release, of gratitude for his wife’s gift, and of newfound resolve. He vowed to be the best father he could be. Their daughter, Georgina Joan Sanders, would grow up loved and surrounded by stories of her incredible mother. He would ensure it.

Determined, he picked up his own phone and called his mother. “Mom, bring the baby back. I’m ready now.”

“Oh, thank God!” his mother exclaimed, nearly crying with relief.

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“Of course, darling. I just wish he had managed his money better. John and I helped him constantly, but it never seemed enough,” Martha lamented.

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“Alright, dear. We’ll attend. But I think it’ll be a waste,” Martha griped once more.

John felt similarly on the day, voicing his frustration at the lawyer’s office, “I don’t see why we’re here. We know all Dad had was the house, and it’s more a burden than a blessing with its current state. I wish we’d kept it in better shape,” he lamented.

“Stop it,” Monica interrupted her uncle sternly.

“Dad’s right,” chipped in her cousin Lydia. “We’ll have to spend thousands on repairs before selling it. It’s in a prime location, so it might be worth it.”

“That’s enough, Lydia,” Monica retorted, displeased with her family’s insensitivity. “We’re here to hear Grandpa’s wishes. It’s not hard, and we shouldn’t complain. We should be grateful for the memories he left us.”

“Monica, we’re all grieving,” Greg, another cousin, added. “But dealing with this immediately after Grandpa’s death is difficult. We have to be practical about it. It’ll be a long process to sell that house.”

“It’s a part of loss. Accept it,” Monica replied, urging silence as the lawyer’s secretary invited them inside for their appointment.

“Thank you for coming,” the lawyer, Mr. Carlberg, began. “Charles didn’t leave an extensive will, but please have a seat.” He organized some documents before continuing. “Let’s proceed.”

Monica hoped her mother and uncle would avoid further complaints. Their behavior resembled childishness possibly born from grief, but she was exhausted by it. Grandpa had always prioritized his family, and she wished they’d honor his memory.

“To my children and grandchildren, I bequeath my house and its contents, though there isn’t much. However, there are three safety deposit boxes in the bank, which I hope will make you appreciate my lifestyle choices,” Mr. Carlberg read aloud, looking expectantly at the family.